#120 | I've Done Well With Money, So Why Don't I Feel Ready to Retire?
Nov 3
You've saved well, paid down debt and built real assets, so why doesn't retirement feel settled? In this episode of the Money Mindset Mastery Podcast, Jim Lao, Denis Bisson, Ryan Genoe and Eric Petersen look at the gap between having enough money and feeling ready to stop working. They cover the emotional shift from earning income to spending assets, what happens if work ends earlier than planned, helping adult children without derailing your own plan, paying off the mortgage versus investing, HELOCs, sequence-of-returns risk and how to build income you can rely on.
Takeaways
- A savings target alone rarely creates confidence: retirement needs a lifestyle plan as well as a financial one
- Plan for an early exit from work, including illness and the limits of disability coverage, before it happens
- Decide how you'll handle family requests, like a down payment, before they arrive
- Sequence-of-returns risk starts when withdrawals start, so build reliable income ahead of time
- Owning funds at several banks isn't the same as being diversified
Chapters
- 00:00 Meet the panel and the retirement-readiness question
- 01:41 Why a savings target alone may not create confidence
- 03:33 From earning income to spending assets
- 05:25 A lifestyle plan, not just a financial plan
- 06:46 Prepare for an early exit from work
- 08:46 Illness, lost income and the limits of disability coverage
- 10:53 Why "I'll just work longer" can fail
- 13:51 Education costs and helping adult children
- 16:38 When family asks for a down payment
- 19:46 Pay off the mortgage or invest?
- 22:40 Cash flow, liquidity and sleeping well
- 26:30 No one-size-fits-all advice
- 31:00 A small HELOC as a fraud barrier
- 32:23 Separate HELOC buckets for investment borrowing
- 34:17 What a HELOC is and how registration works
- 35:06 Sequence-of-returns risk
- 37:30 Lessons from the dot-com crash and 2008
- 39:49 Reducing volatility and building reliable income
- 42:19 Private equity and diversification
- 45:17 Why funds at several banks may not diversify
- 48:21 Private investments and the limits of DIY
- 51:59 What banks offer and where advice broadens options
- 54:34 Start with goals, cash flow and timing
- 56:54 Drawdown and legacy strategies
- 57:58 Questions on downturns, debt, taxes and family support
- 01:01:06 Why DIY investors may still need specialist advice
- 01:03:02 Build a team and get a second opinion
This episode is general information, not personal financial advice. To talk about your own situation, visit tvhgroup.ca or tvhfinancial.ca, or email [email protected].


